Friday, October 23, 2009

Flash 55

The usually very happy teenaged stepdaughter had a meltdown. She lived with her Dad and Stepmom for only four months.

Forgetting the four principles, Stepmom took it personally.

"If she's not happy here, let her go home to her mother!!"

An apology followed. "I like being here," the teen said, gently.

Stepmom melted . .and learned.

10 comments:

  1. So beautifully put Bubbie. Lessons learned are the best kind. Love that you just let your words flow this week ~ I did the same. Sometimes they become the most heartfelt ones.

    Love you my friend.

    Here is my 55 ~ Drifting

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  2. ummm...a very real and heartfelt conversation...great 55!

    mine is up!

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  3. It's so hard to be a step mom. At least she's trying.

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  4. Bubbie....
    Very thoughtful 55!
    Very emotional and powerful.
    Thank You so much for this fine contribution.
    Thanks for visiting, and have a Glorious Week-End...Galen

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  5. Teenager girls have meltdowns for no reason at all...you are blessed with a very bright and thoughful one! Beautiful 55 topic.

    Thanks so much for all your insightful comments. You seem to understand exactly what I'm trying to say. God bless!

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  6. Nessa - it's the Four Agreements:
    Be Impeccable with your word

    Don't take anything personally

    Don't make assumptions

    Always do your best.

    I'll check your Silly Saturday. Thanks as usual.

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  7. I am glad they made up. We all make mistakes, but they can be rectified. Taking things personally might cause problems!

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  8. VERY well done!

    I'm enjoying your blog very much.

    xo

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