The usually very happy teenaged stepdaughter had a meltdown. She lived with her Dad and Stepmom for only four months.
Forgetting the four principles, Stepmom took it personally.
"If she's not happy here, let her go home to her mother!!"
An apology followed. "I like being here," the teen said, gently.
Stepmom melted . .and learned.
Friday, October 23, 2009
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So beautifully put Bubbie. Lessons learned are the best kind. Love that you just let your words flow this week ~ I did the same. Sometimes they become the most heartfelt ones.
ReplyDeleteLove you my friend.
Here is my 55 ~ Drifting
ummm...a very real and heartfelt conversation...great 55!
ReplyDeletemine is up!
It's so hard to be a step mom. At least she's trying.
ReplyDeleteThis feels so real! Great 55!
ReplyDeleteBubbie....
ReplyDeleteVery thoughtful 55!
Very emotional and powerful.
Thank You so much for this fine contribution.
Thanks for visiting, and have a Glorious Week-End...Galen
Teenager girls have meltdowns for no reason at all...you are blessed with a very bright and thoughful one! Beautiful 55 topic.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for all your insightful comments. You seem to understand exactly what I'm trying to say. God bless!
Lovely 55. What are the 4 principles?
ReplyDeleteSilly Saturday #4 - Purdie Pyrate's Halloween
Nessa - it's the Four Agreements:
ReplyDeleteBe Impeccable with your word
Don't take anything personally
Don't make assumptions
Always do your best.
I'll check your Silly Saturday. Thanks as usual.
I am glad they made up. We all make mistakes, but they can be rectified. Taking things personally might cause problems!
ReplyDeleteVERY well done!
ReplyDeleteI'm enjoying your blog very much.
xo